Our Daughter’s Nightly Struggle

Pierre Van Zylparenting

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Allison’s sixteen-year-old daughter, like any teen her age, experiences high school drama. When the mom from Overland Park, Kansas, discovered she was staying up late into the night texting and using social media, however, she became concerned. Th…

‘You hold on tight. Somehow 20 years isn’t enough. When it’s time for them to go, it all hits you like a ton of bricks.’: Mom of teens urges us to ‘soak it all in’ during younger parenting years

Pierre Van ZylLearn, Move, parenting, Personal Growth + Development

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When our children are babies, we wish they were old enough to sleep through the whole night. When they are toddlers, we wish they were old enough to stop throwing tantrums. When they are elementary school kids, we wish they were old enough to stop pick…

Screentime Is Making Kids Moody, Crazy, and Lazy

Pierre Van Zylparenting

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Do you have a child or teenager who always seems “on edge”, or who can erupt into a complete rage at any given moment? Or is your kid kind of depressed, apathetic, or has deflated into a constant mood of being dull and uninterested? Your first instinct…

College Isn’t For Every Young Adult–And It’s Time Parents Accept It

Pierre Van Zylparenting

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Last September, almost twenty million students enrolled in colleges across the United States [1]. That’s a nearly twenty-five percent increase in enrollment from twenty years ago, and a sixty percent increase over the last fifty years [1]. The idea that you must go to college and get a degree in order to be successful in…

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Here’s to all the step-dads that show up

Pierre Van Zylparenting

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The classic American family is no longer “a mother, a father, two kids, and a dog” as the divorce rates have skyrocketed in recent years. According to the Bureau of Census, one out of every marriage ends in divorce, with the average American marriage l…

Sometimes a Day Off with the Kids is Harder Than a Work Day

Pierre Van Zylparenting

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You are jolted awake at five in the morning by high-pitched screams from down the hall. You drag yourself out of bed to respond to the deafening “Mamma! Mamma!” exploding from the tiny lungs of your one-year-old daughter. Just as you finally get her settled and back to sleep, her two-year old older brother wakes…

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2-year-olds aren’t terrible—they’re just learning how to be human

Pierre Van Zylparenting

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As a young parent you’ve probably heard the warnings- “they’re perfect now, but wait till they turn two!”. Maybe you haven’t gotten to that stage yet, or maybe you’re already in the thick of it, wondering how you’re sweet, cooing baby turned into this irrational little monster seemingly overnight. Even if you’re not a parent,…

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My Dear Firstborn, You’ll Never Know: How Motherhood Changes You

Pierre Van Zylparenting

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Life is full of defining moments. Moments that leave an imprint on your memory and change you forever. Few moments are as life-altering, though, as the moment you become a mother for the first time. Seemingly overnight, your life is completely turned u…

Bilingual Babies are Smarter

Pierre Van Zylparenting

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For years, people worried that speaking to babies in more than one language would cause confusion and a delay in language development. Now we know that couldn’t be further from the truth: babies raised in two (or more!) languages have a higher rate of …

I’m 30 Years Old, and My Mom Still Pretends Santa Is Real

Pierre Van Zylparenting

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While most kids discover and accept the “Santa Secret” by the age of eight or nine, Caitlin Galllagher didn’t reach this pivotal moment that happens in every child’s life until age thirteen [1]. Sure, she heard her friends talk about it- tell stories at lunch time of how they found out it was actually their…

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Classroom Experiment Shows the Importance of Hand-Washing

Pierre Van ZylHeal, Health Awareness, parenting

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Every year as the temperature begins to drop, discussion surrounding cold and flu season starts to rise. Preventing the spread of germs is a constant battle from October to March, and there is one sentiment you hear echoing off the walls everywhere you go: wash your hands. One science teacher decided to conduct an experiment…

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Grow a Living Playhouse For Your Kids

Pierre Van ZylHome + Garden, Make, parenting

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In recent years, there has been a growing disconnect between children and their food. Most kids have never set foot on a farm or in an orchard, only ever seeing food go from the grocery store to their house to their plate. Thousands of children have never before witnessed the food they eat actually growing…

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My Mother’s Funeral Was The Day I Realized I Lost My Best Friend

Pierre Van ZylLearn, Opinion, parenting, Personal Growth + Development

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“I tried to keep it together. But the moment I was at her funeral and I watched her body being lowered into the ground, I felt the crushing pain. It doesn’t matter how old you are; when the pain of losing a mother hits you, you can’t stop the flood of despair that threatens to…

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More polio cases now caused by oral vaccine than by wild virus

Pierre Van ZylFact Checked, Health Awareness, Learn, News + Discoveries, parenting

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In recent days, headlines crying “more polio cases now caused by vaccine than by wild virus” are circulating online. But before you jump to conclusions about the safety of polio vaccines, you should look a little closer. No, people are not catching polio from getting a polio vaccine. But there is some truth to those…

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Holding Your Crying Baby isn’t Spoiling Them, You’re Just Meeting the Child’s Needs

Pierre Van Zylparenting

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Many new parents are given conflicting advice. The baby should sleep on their stomach… wait no, the back or… the side? The baby should sleep with the mother, no, in their own crib, no, in their own room. Sometimes the advice comes from a trusted place, like a doctor or a family member. Most of…

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Amazing Photos as Dad and Stepdad Bond over Mutual Love for Daughter

Pierre Van Zylparenting

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This article was originally published on November 14th, 2019, and has since been updated. For the sake of the children involved, co-parenting DOES NOT have to be complicated. Matured parents would be driven to put aside any feelings of antagonism or sp…

Simple Toys May Be The Best Kind For Your Child’s Development

Pierre Van Zylparenting

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As the spooky season ends, the holiday season begins. For people on top of their game, that means they start of gift shopping. If you’re shopping for kids or a parent in general, this new report from the American Association of Pediatricians (AAP) will…

“Don’t kiss my baby”: Doctors send warning about RSV ahead of winter

Pierre Van Zylparenting

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It’s becoming more common for parents to ask loved ones not to get too close to newborns. But as we enter another cold & flu season, even children up to the age of two can be especially vulnerable to germs. Respiratory syncytial virus (RSV) is virtually harmless for adults, but for babies and young toddlers,…

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Doctor Suspended After Baby is Born Without Face

Pierre Van Zylparenting, Pregnancy

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Marlene and David were overjoyed when they found out they were expecting. For the next nine months, they attended the necessary doctor and ultrasound appointments and were reassured that the baby would be healthy. It seemed like smooth sailing for the …

Pregnant Woman Who Endured Chemo for Breast Cancer Gives Birth to Healthy Baby

Pierre Van Zylparenting, Pregnancy, Women’s Health

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For 36-year-old Jade Devis of Rancho Cucamonga, California, her story of becoming a mother and her story of battling breast cancer are inextricable. Devis found out she was expecting in December of 2018, but shortly afterward, she began to experience intense breast pain. By February, she noticed a hard, painful lump above her breast. She…

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Dollywood Theme Park in Tennessee Has a Calming Room to Entertain Autistic Kids Dealing with Sensory Overloads

Pierre Van ZylLearn, News + Discoveries, parenting

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For kids with autism, the world can be perceived as a scary and overwhelming place. A fun-filled park with various attractions could be a bit too much for a kid who suffers from sensory overload as a result of autism. Flashing lights, loud sounds, sudden outbursts, extreme colors, funny smells, and certain rides can make…

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Lying Down With Your Kids at Night While They Fall Asleep Is Not a ‘Bad Habit’

Pierre Van Zylparenting

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Misconceptions about attachment parenting are the reasons why many parents avoid lying with their kids at night. Attachment parenting (AP) simply means nurturing the healthy connection that children can develop with their parents. It revolves around deepening the parent-child bond rather than severing it as the child grows older.  Critics over the years have argued…

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Turning down the dial

Pierre Van ZylKC, parenting

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My daughter started high school this year, and I can’t believe I’m old enough to have a daughter starting high school. It feels like yesterday when she started first grade in a new school and wouldn’t go into her classroom out of fear and embarras…

Phone Explodes Killing Teen As She Sleeps

Pierre Van ZylLearn, News + Discoveries, parenting

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‘Dying in one’s sleep’ is often thought of as the most peaceful way to pass, if there is such a thing. Sadly, this was not the case for fourteen-year-old Alua Asetkyzy Abzalbek from Bastobe, Kazakhstan. The teenager went to bed with her phone on her pi…